Finding Time - Random I Am

In life we all wonder about time! What is it? How do we contol it? Can we speed it up or slow it down? Mothers want there children to stay young forever and sometimes I wonder if this affects the mother as she gets older. I think a mother wonders why her child does not come around, does not always answer the phone, and sometimes delays getting in touch. Does this mean a family is falling apart or does it mean that a child is getting older and wants distance? I wish that I could find the answers or even give a little advice. I am the child who does answer the phone, who makes sure that I visit but, sometimes I do wonder at what point do we have to Find the Time to look at our surroundings wondering what we can give up to gain more time.